All guys need time alone to cool off when they are in an argument with their partner. This is something that a lot of people do not understand (If they do understand then there is a good chance they won't let you cool off during a conflict). And I just don't like arguments over the phone when my partner wants to keep me on. It just gets me more upset especially when it is about an accusation. Also it is not the best time to start an argument when I am busy working. I personally want to take care of the matter and stop talking on the phone. I do not know if what I did is okay. I had to do it because the situation did not get any better over the phone. I hung up on my partner.
Before hanging up I said several times, "I do not want to get into an accident driving while using the cell phone. I talk to you when I get there." I hung up. All I thought of is that my partner must have woken up on the wrong side of the bed. It is so unexpected.
As fustrated and upset as I am, I have to think of why? Accusing me of such a thing? The bottom line is that I was too busy working and didn't call my partner once. It was such a small thing that I missed out on. My partner wanted to see how I was doing and it seemed that I wasn't concern. As I was driving back, I regretted of not realizing that sooner. My partner missed me and liked to hear from me. When the accusation made I could have replied in a caring but sarcastic tone, "Aww you missed me... I will be there hunnie. (It sounds cheesy but I do it once in awhile.)" I don't know if even if my regrets are fulfilled it would solve anything, but all I know is that it shows that I truly understand.
Sometimes I am an idiot and do not realize how my partner feels because I am "caught up in the moment." Mainly these things are hard to pick up when I am upset. Some people just need some time "alone" to think it over. And maybe, they will find the reason for all of these things. I find that it is helpful when I am alone thinking. I do not know if there is a proper way of doing it but I have told my partner what I have come to understand.
Before hanging up I said several times, "I do not want to get into an accident driving while using the cell phone. I talk to you when I get there." I hung up. All I thought of is that my partner must have woken up on the wrong side of the bed. It is so unexpected.
As fustrated and upset as I am, I have to think of why? Accusing me of such a thing? The bottom line is that I was too busy working and didn't call my partner once. It was such a small thing that I missed out on. My partner wanted to see how I was doing and it seemed that I wasn't concern. As I was driving back, I regretted of not realizing that sooner. My partner missed me and liked to hear from me. When the accusation made I could have replied in a caring but sarcastic tone, "Aww you missed me... I will be there hunnie. (It sounds cheesy but I do it once in awhile.)" I don't know if even if my regrets are fulfilled it would solve anything, but all I know is that it shows that I truly understand.
Sometimes I am an idiot and do not realize how my partner feels because I am "caught up in the moment." Mainly these things are hard to pick up when I am upset. Some people just need some time "alone" to think it over. And maybe, they will find the reason for all of these things. I find that it is helpful when I am alone thinking. I do not know if there is a proper way of doing it but I have told my partner what I have come to understand.
