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Love 1 & Love 2

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There are times when you are confronted and wondered if your partner really does love you. It may seem kind of obvious but other times you just don't know. I used to think that the meaning of love was uniform and the same among people. I was totally wrong. I find that my view on love might be different than what my partner sees. Love to my partner might be apparent in the things I do for my partner (acts of caring), and love to me is the small things my partner would do and say to me. After going out with my partner for a year I still cannot seem to comprehend what love really means to my partner. Love to my partner might be a trio between spoken words, actions, and surprises. Even the smallest variation in perception of the meaning of love may lead to a conflict. I tried asking my partner many times what does love mean. My partner cannot describe it. I don't blame my partner because love is more than any combination of words.

This is from Georgia_peach comment which catches my attention because it vividly echoes in my head:

"Every year my husband stops by the side of the road and pulls up a tiger lily by its roots.  Then he presents it to me, dirty bulb and all.  It's jsut a little thing, but the first time he did it we had been dating about a month and he remembered that I said my favorite flowers are tiger lilies because I like hte way they look in ditches. And no matter how hard a florist tries, their lilies will never be so beautiful as the one that grows in the mud.  Little things like that fill the gap for me."

We all view love differently. I like to know.

What is love to you?


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